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Posted:Apr 19, 2017 4:58 am
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2017 11:13 pm


When it comes to anal sex, the perfect situation is when you find a great partner who relaxes you and really loosens you up. If you are a bottom and sometimes experience pain during anal sex, you may get frustrated. If you are and want to be a bottom it is because you take more pleasure out of that role. To be versatile is to be able to jump from top to bottom without losing pleasure during the sex session. A lot of gay men are versatile but choose one of the roles more often. If you are a versatile bottom, even if you do not practice sex very often, bottoming is what really turns you on. While bottoming, there might be a few times when it is comfortable and great and others when the pain does not let you concentrate on the pleasure. Do you remember the first time you bottomed? It probably hurt a bit, maybe it did not hurt that much. But for those whom the pain was really bad, the first thought that came to their mind is that bottoming is not their thing. Take my example as a solution to your anal sex woes: I got my first bike when I was a kid and like all the big kids around, I wanted to ride it all day. But every time I took it outside and tried, I kept falling and falling. One day I gave up and ran inside, crying and losing all hope. I vowed to never touch it again. I liked to ride, but it was just too painful. My mom wiped my tears and said, “Don’t worry my dear, practice makes perfect. When you fall, just pick yourself up, relax, take a deep breath and ride, ride again!”

It is the same answer that we give to all who want to master their techniques, especially with bottoming: practice, practice and more practice. As humans we always try to run from the pain, it is only natural.
Try out these tips to avoid pain:
1. Relax and drive your mind away from the thought of pain. Believe me it is possible. The more you concentrate on your arousal and your partners, the more you can relax. A relaxed anus helps to avoid pain.
2. Try different positions. Anal sex does not have a manual, there are different penis lengths as well as different anus sizes and even shapes; to each couple comes the decision of trying different sex positions and forms of penetration to understand which are the ones that gives them more pleasure.
3. Try a small sex toy. Either by yourself or with your partner, you can explore the pleasure and the pain and try to figure what you can do, which position to take, and if it persists, where exactly does it come from.

In ending, it might be up to you to avoid the pain, but before sexing you can never tell. A big arousal can often help with that decision. Some practice will do you good. However, if the pain persists, you should stay safe and never miss seeing your doctor for problems like anal fissure or hemorrhoids or some other medical condition.

Enjoy safely, gay life is far more fun than many of us know or want to know.
First Gay Experience
Posted:Apr 19, 2017 4:52 am
Last Updated:May 19, 2017 1:18 am

First Time gay Sex

Gay men’s first encounters with other men’s erections can be strange and complex experiences. There’s excitement. We’ve got there. We’ve got him stripped to his intimate, naked self. He’s upright and hard just for you, his excitement obvious and visible. There’s also the shock of reality. The color and texture of his cock and balls may appear far more different from the surrounding skin than you’ve been able to imagine it and then, amidst this shock, there’s the need to perform.

How might we begin to prepare? A few tips are obvious. Make sure there is real emotional intimacy between partners instead of a random or desperately sought encounter.{I am NOT suggesting or recommending against the casual, random one night encounters at all} His nakedness then will seem more clearly right and nonthreatening. You’ll be able to be open with each other as you become more aroused. Be sure as well that your inexperience is known by him – and his experience or otherwise by you. You both need to know where you stand, the better to support each other. Don’t rush things. Take your time for lots of foreplay to enjoy and get to know each other’s body. Go step by step, touch before sucking, and only go as far as you want to. You can always come back for more later, but can’t take back what you’ve already done.
This, perhaps, sounds like a heavy, too much to take talk almost suggesting that a man to man sexual encounter is a very big deal. Don’t let your ideas about sex get all out of ratio, but take a little time to think things through before having sex with a homo affair. There are plenty and very sensual ways in which you can develop your sexual sense after getting naked with another man. It is a n undeniable fact that we all have seen most of the body’s skin on many many other men at local swimming pool or beach and most of us have seen a range of flaccid penises also at school, college urinals, gyms etc. with no issue but when they’re erect, they all look different.
It is sardonic that even when we are alone enjoying our solo masturbating session, we are not much aware of our own erect penis. We tend to forget our own body especially the sliding hand and the erect shaft, giving control to the mental cinema screen. We do not dwell on enjoying the texture, the size, the shape, the color and the vigor of the physicality of masturbation. It is vehemently suggested to try stopping and slowing down during the play, moving deliberately sluggish, teasing ourselves, connecting with the sensations and imagining to do variant with those sensations. Bring these various aspects to your next sexual encounter with the guy and you’ll be more ready, more confident after the clothing layers of protection are taken off by both of you.
Pornography is another great way of exploring our fantasies and plenty available on the internet. Keep in mind that porn is for the viewer and although perfectly fine and nothing wrong with it but it is not about the real sex what we are trying to be in. Use it to look and register the models’ erections, and think of them, other men’s erections in our hands to more fully associate the feelings of experiencing with our partner’s arousal and erection. Never feel guilty or less of a man for wanting to see a cock, hold it, kiss it, worship it, love it, suck it and even have it inside your body. Accept and enjoy those desires and when you feel you’re ready to act on them, take the time to enjoy it. If you’ve prepared yourself a little, you’ll be confident enough to make the most of your first experiences.
I most sincerely believe that it would help the beginners and hesitant curious guys. I have been a gay bottom since the day one and been fucked plenty since I was couple days past my 18th birthday. I have learnt much with hard and difficult personal experiences with many many many medium, large and EX LRG cocks and have fallen plenty of times but am proud to have learnt and can share much with the willing. Qasim
Need to Start a Tattle Tale
Posted:Mar 26, 2017 1:40 am
Last Updated:May 19, 2017 1:20 am

I did not want to put this as an article and end of it RATHER I needed to start a Tattle Tale and your comments, personal experience details etc. Thank you.

Pleasure of Cock Sucking

Sucking a cock gives pleasure to both partners. There is a moment of pure pleasure greater than even the ever high instant of Orgasm. That’s the moment when the warm, silky, thick, goby, smelly, tasty, slush glides down the throat and leaves an unrelenting pungent odor in the back of the nostrils. That’s the moment when a cock sucker actually realizes, what he did. He sucked a cock in all the real meaning, sense and spirit of the action. It is exhilarating and nerve wracking each and every time whether it is the first time or the hundredth. The satisfaction, the fulfillment is so immense and colossal that it needs to be repeated as quickly as possible to achieve the perfection level.

At the cost of being an army of one, I dare say that ‘Deep Throating’ can be a part of cock sucking but Cock Sucking has nothing much to do with the art of getting the throat fucked. PLEASE, do not get me wrong; I am not discarding, rejecting or disapproving the awesome pleasure of being able to offer the strong musculature of the throat for massaging the full cock length. I am not refuting the rush, the scuttle of getting choked and enjoying the same fury, when a cock slides across the inner sphincter of the rectum and hits home. All I am saying is that cock sucking is a complete act which can be performed with the usage of hands, lips, mouth, tongue and a cock of course. Cock sucking or getting the cock sucked, affords such a true sense of satisfaction and happiness in terms of sexual enjoyment that some men never miss fucking the ass or getting their ass fucked.

It is very difficult to adjust having the length and width of a healthy adult cock shoved in the mouth. For the real joy, true pleasure and completion of the session, it’s always recommended to start slow and shallow and gradually increase the intensity to orgasm and finally an exploding climax. Never hesitate to tell the partner that although the ferocity and vehemence gets to be the essence of sexual pleasing, still starting slow and lingering nice and easy is also very pleasing and satisfying. The best of the best advice can be that ‘even though, if you consider yourself alpha or whatever other shit; once naked, both partners need to focus on pleasuring the other for the ultimately memorable results’. No wonder all the authorities and experts recommend getting into 69 position and perform it mutually, but even if not; do it with a notion and passion of pleasuring for the pleasure. It is good to remember that a bit of gagging is very pleasing but the feeling of choking and drowning kills the moment and it is crucial to understand the difference and keep the pleasure train rolling.

It is a very professional advice to learn by practicing and if the oral bottom is only a novice and not a champion; the top or the alpha should concede a little and help making it a memorable stance through his expertise and abilities. It is an exquisite paradise to close the eyes and feel the stiff muscle slap and rub on the lips, saliva shining it and then leisurely parting of lips and welcoming the monster to slip in while his hands slip behind the head for a gentle encouragement and a touch of pushing…………. Aahhhh! So incredible and awesome to put in words!!

The opinions are plenty but undoubtedly the best being that every step should be a pleasure for both. Some men, when sucked; do not want their partners to play with their own bone hard cock which is throbbing and spilling the pre like a leaky faucet. No one can offer the final verdict but when one is not alone, mutual decision should prevail and if the sucker, only wants to pleasure himself with his own hands or if the mutual decision is not to 69, there is no harm to be at liberty to enjoy personal pleasing with a clear understanding to stay with the partner and not ruin the fun by exploding far quickly or when he is not even close.

Only couple of words before ending this sweet topic with a bang; Balls make it all happen, do not ignore them. Lick them, suck them, wash them, chuggle them like a washing machine, tea bag them and taste them for an unimaginable additional joy. Try taking them both and keeping them both in the mouth even for a short while. Take them in one by one if both is impossible and plop them out while lips apply some additional pressure on them for a heavenly feeling.

And now the ending bang! Not the sucker or even the ‘suckee’ can remain oblivious of the feeling of the cock coaxing and struggling to keep the control but slipping into the mode of final flexing, attaining the impossible length and getting the monumental width and throbbing with the vulnerability of splitting into two and the dam breaks with a flood of pre cum; trying to contain the roller coaster ride and not roar as loud as the circumstances allow and announce verbally of cannon blasting is not recommended by any expert. When the spermy, slushy seed provider roars and announces its readiness to explode; it is so natural that the sucker makes up his mind to stay the course and enjoy the completion by taking it in and swallowing instead of otherwise. Keep practicing to be a partner who is fun to be with when clothes are off and all defenses are nullified.
Please Advise
Posted:Jan 30, 2017 7:31 pm
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2017 11:18 pm

I could have put it as a question, requesting for some helpful answers but, honestly I wanted to start a discussion as well as getting an answer.

I always had a habit of shaving my pubic hair and hair around my love hole. An overwhelming number of men who fucked me, have appreciated the fine looking hole I had to offer them. Now after years of fun [over 15], I feel my bottom hair are very coarse, thick and causing much too much of an itch or may be the better word is discomfort.

To all bottoms like me who liked and still like to get rid of the pubic hair and the hair around the bottom opening, what is your remedy? Does it not bother you when these hair are not shaved? When men are sawing you off in a fury, don’t you get some hair pulled and some hair even uprooted causing pain and interfering the heavenly fun? Please give me some hope and workable answer.

I just cannot stand these hair around my cock base, on my balls and surrounding my ass hole but even missing a day for not removing them is proving to be a real pain in the ass by causing itchy irritable discomfort.

Please discuss your solution and oblige. Thanks as always…. Qasim
Posted:Dec 31, 2016 7:11 pm
Last Updated:Mar 26, 2017 1:43 am

Best wishes for a NEW Year to all. Safe, secure and healthy one.

Do not retain your loads in your balls, Spill it into needy ass guys. Plenty starved near you. Thank You.
On a Lighter Note
Posted:Jun 7, 2016 7:31 pm
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2017 11:25 pm

On a Lighter Note:

We met in this well known bar for the seekers and seeked crowd, had a couple of Scotch shots, exchanged phone numbers and spoke couple of times; finally deciding we should meet for sex. He luckily could host on this past Sunday [almost all day from 9:00 AM till 7:00 PM at least].
I got ready, cleaned myself very well, inside and outside and was at the given address promptly on time. Rafaqat David [an Arabian Christian] opened the entry door and waved me to get in as soon as I sent him a text that I was parking outside his house.
He was not wearing anything but only a regular white ‘Hanes’ underwear. He asked and we took small glasses of Orange Juice as we sat in the family room. Rafaqat stood up repeatedly, I think on purpose, in front of me and scratched his balls insides the underwear. The thing disappointing me the most was; I could not see even an average bulge in his front. I have been naked and got fucked by couple of Middle Eastern men before and likewise hoped Rafaqat to be decently hung but although he was doing his best to show off but there seemed to be nothing worth showing and I was honestly thinking to do something drastic.
And then we finished our juice and he took me in his arms. During kissing I reached his groin and while sitting on the couch he took my shirt and pants off me. I took the liberty to search in his underwear but my frustration was kind of doubled because him sitting in an angle, it was not any easier to reach for his center point to find my prize. I was more than 100 % convinced that I shall be spending the time with a relatively “inadequate” man only hoping that he would know how to use it the best for mutual blissful time.
He asked for us to move into the bedroom and as we got off the couch, with one quick move he pushed his underwear to his ankles. Oh! My Lord. He had the poster perfect size of Middle Eastern descent. Ripe aged 39, slim stout Rafaqat had at least 5 inches of the uncut cock dangling so humbly curved over the manliest balls as if it was bowing in respect and going in deep submission of thanks for getting my ass for venturing and enjoying.
When he erected, he was positively an over average, at least 7—8 inches long and ass damaging minimum 6 inches wide meat pole owner. We spent time together till about 4:30 PM. He fucked me 3 times and it was more than satisfying for both of us. While going back home, I thanked my lucky stars that I did not run away from him after making a lousy excuse. Being a HAPPY time, I thought to share it with you. Thank you for listening…………. With regards, Qasim.
For OnDaFence
Posted:May 28, 2016 8:04 pm
Last Updated:Jun 24, 2016 4:40 pm

Sorry, but you knew it already.

The message you sent me through OP mail system, reached me but was blurred and could not be read.

Thank you for your interest and kindness.


Posted:May 5, 2016 6:17 pm
Last Updated:Feb 18, 2018 3:3 am

Thank you for sending me the mail through OP mail system........ I could not read it because I am a standard Non Paying member.

Thank you anyway for whatever you had said. Have a Good day.
WHAT It Feels Like To Get Fucked In The Ass
Posted:Apr 30, 2016 7:01 pm
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2017 11:26 pm

What It Feels Like To Get Fucked In The Ass

[ Thoughts of a bottom/ You don't have to agree if you don't want to]

By : Qasim Khan

To me, it is a learning module. Hope you find it useful.

Getting your ass penetrated with a Live Man Sized Cock should be a prerequisite for life because it’s an experience that teaches humility and encourages teamwork. After the deed, you see your fellow man in a whole new empathetic light, the kind of light that’s humanizing, curbs any judgments and could possibly end wars. It’s like, “You just let me put my penis in your ass and move it in and out for an hour. God bless you, you wonderful angel. Take this ‘get out of jail free’ card. You’ve earned it!”
Generally speaking, the only people who aren’t getting fucked in the ass are straight men. Lesbians use dildos, straight girls get drunk and consent to their boyfriend’s and or spouse's requests, and gay guys, well, we sort of invented anal sex. The male equivalent of a G-spot rests in our prostate so the incentive to get someone’s dick in our ass ASAP is that much luxurious.
But here’s some real talk for you. Anal sex is kind of the biggest deal ever. When my friends tell me stories about doing it with some random man they met at a bar, I’m completely stunned, not because I don't get fucked by random men but I would never get fucked in a bar by drunk man or men. The act is so intense and delicate that I could never give my asshole to just anybody. Entrance in my ass is only granted to V.I.P.’s—Very Important Penises. But this is something the gay community doesn’t always see ass-to-ass. Some only have anal sex in monogamous affairs and consider oral sex to be intercourse. With others, however, it’s like throwing a hot dog down a hallway. Anal is like the oxygen they need to breathe.
I’m going to try to put the feeling of anal sex into words as best as I can so you can get an idea of how crazy sexy intense it is. First of all, in my belief, anal sex cannot be an on-the-fly decision. If I’m getting fucked in the ass, I need to know in advance, at least couple of days; so I can prepare properly. If it's private event and we have spoken about it, I appreciate nothing more than to send me a private event invitation to get fucked in the ass, with a suggested date and time and how many [EXACTLY, no approximations, Please]. I reserve the right to “Attend”, or “Not Attending.” If I choose to attend, I will commit 100%.
I know most bottoms may not but I do give a pep talk to my asshole like, “Babe! someone is being kind to fulfill your need, something special coming to orifice near you. I only hope you’ll like it". I must go to the shower for preparation and finger fuck me, after enema [if I choose to take enema for cleaning myself]. I don’t want it to be too tight because then it runs the risk of being very painful. While loosening things up, I take the opportunity to clean thoroughly. Since I understood the mechanics of being a bottom, I assure myself of not being insecure about the state of my fuck hole and I am always thorough in examining my asshole. Using dildo or an ass stretching device [PLUG] during foreplay is the job for the guy or guys who are going to fuck me.
Fast forward to the main event: It’s imperative that the guy or guys who are going to fuck me, be trustworthy and know what they are doing and do it firmly but still gentlemanly and not be an asshole. Assholes don’t mix with my asshole. I enjoy being used and will let them enjoy using me but NEVER abusing me. I’m going to be getting in sexual positions where my body will look fleshy and enticing. I generally make sure to see the equipment I am going to be fucked with, in advance; and will never agree to get fucked by a man who came attached with a horse sized cock. I love the average to large sized cocks in me.
When he goes in, it’s going to feel strange at first. Actually, anal sex always feels strange. It’s hard to explain but the whole thing just feels wrong. I don’t mean that in a moralistic or bad way. I mean, it just literally feels wrong and unnatural because an exit is used as an entrance. Funny though, that’s is the raison d'être of deriving so much enjoyment from getting ass fucked. The unnatural feeling enhances the bliss. When you watch people getting fucked in gay porn, there’s lots of moaning, you go, “yeah, right! Stupid acting”? I "ass sure" you, I don’t think they are. When a penis enters my ass, a moan involuntarily escapes me. I dare you, you have little control over it, which makes the experience even hotter.
When the fucking is in full swing it gets uncontrollable & very overwhelming. You’re making noises, you could never make otherwise and the whole thing is just blowing your mind. All of these sensations are just making you feel so vulnerable, and you’re staring at the dude (well depending on the position) and you usually feel real warm towards him / them. You also might think the way they’re fucking you is incredibly hot and primal and you’ve never wanted them so badly before! You want them to fuck you so hard and O’ Lord, where is all of this coming from?! You just want to get fucked, you know?! Fuck me hard and more!
You’re writhing and shaking and everything that’s happening feels so dirty and hideous. You feel like this is what you were made to do—get fucked. It just feels so right and back to basics. You might never feel more like an animal than in these moments of getting fucked in the ass. There are no more nuances or intricacies to humans. It has just boiled down to wanting to get fucked.
It’s impossible for me not to feel close to someone when all of this is happening. There’s a bond that develops that makes it impossible for it to happen with men who don’t mean a thing to me. Anal sex is a special thing. I’m unwilling to perceive it as casual. I only know that it feels crazy, wild, foolish, feral, unwise, extreme and awesome to get fucked in the ass. It hurts, it feels good, it feels wrong, and it feels right. It’s a dick going deep into your ass. It’s a connection. I recommend it to all.
Thank you [rlb1978]
Posted:Apr 27, 2016 5:52 pm
Last Updated:Feb 18, 2018 3:3 am

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