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XplorN Blog

XplorN3's blog.

Thoughts, musings about sexuality in general as related through our experiences.

Updates and listings of the OutPersonals BLING we've created to share.

Hopefully, a way to connect with other guys.

And more...

XplorN3 is a gay couple from Southern California initially looking to sexually explore with a third guy. They enjoyed that experience and continue to explore their individual sexual desires, likes and dislikes, fetishes, other 3-way experiences, group experiences and whatever else happens to come up. Cum explore with us.

Updating
Posted:May 11, 2022 11:59 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2023 11:38 am
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Hello Gentlemen, it's been a while hasn't it?

I've had difficulty connecting with men on this site, even when I subscribed (if they hadn't) and vice versa. So, I've not been around in a while.

I've updated our profile info--we've explored some fetishes and our interests have expanded.

Our pics are old, but I like the folders/subjects. Perhaps I'll update or add more. Not sure that anyone can see them though. I can only see few pics of our connections.

Hope to update the blog describing some of our new encounters. Hope even more to move some fantasies to "experiences."

Cheers!
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Fucking
Posted:Mar 19, 2019 12:23 am
Last Updated:May 11, 2022 11:59 am
9409 Views

Hi Gays,

Can't wait 'til you guys fuck my fag ass!

Hope it's soon.

Send us a message.
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Looking toward 2018
Posted:Dec 31, 2017 9:26 am
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2019 12:33 am
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Happy New Year, all!

It's December 31st, 2017 and we're happy to be moving into the new year.

So excited for our first gay cruise in January! We are finally doing the Atlantis 100% gay cruise!! We've been on many cruises and some even with gay groups, but never a full out and out gay cruise.

This has been on our bucket list for sure; excited that we finally get to experience it.

Anxious that we're not in the best shape (as we had hoped we'd be); wondering what kind of sexual experiences we'll be privy to.

We've heard different stories--it is what you make it. We're willing to engage sexually, so our concern is if we'll have any luck connecting. The men posting on the group chat are all toned up and buffed out. We're not in the worse shape, but certainly we've got "Dad bods." (I know some guys are into that look).

Wondering if there is going to be the attitude we run into at West Hollywood bathhouses. People holding out for better. Wondering if we'll have orgies in our room. Wondering if there'll be so many men, so much distance on the enormous ship that any and all connections have to be immediate. You can flirt, make plans, share info but be so busy with what's immediately in front of you that you never really connect.

Sort of like Burning Man that way.

But there's more technology on a cruise ship. There's a fighting chance with a phone app, cruise cards and cabin telephones; plus wipe-boards on your door.

There's also the "dick deck"... the dimly lit section of secluded hallways that lure men like a back alley in old porn movies. Anonymous, lusty, immediate.

The cruise itself we know we'll enjoy. The destinations are nice. Being around 4,000 gay men for an entire week will be an extraordinary experience all in itself. There will be some straight people, but for the most part, it will be a gay island.

Beyond that, we don't know what we'll encounter in the new year. Hope to make another trip to Burning Man; maybe visit states back east.

I'll keep looking at my lists and pushing to obtain the goals--the experiences I want to have. Keeping them in mind helps to get us in the environment to make them happen.

Looking forward to more nude adventures at Palm Springs clothing optional resorts, more Las Vegas shenanigans, more Los Angeles bathhouse action, more local hook ups exploring our fetishes and pleasuring men.

Here's to a happy and healthy new year

Cheers
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2017
Posted:Sep 16, 2017 12:43 pm
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2017 9:29 am
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Hi Men!

It's 2017 and we're still on this site--not sure why exactly. We cannot really connect with anyone if we are not a member--and members can't even connect with us. So, I guess, it's just another avenue and view, and if others are really interested in meeting up with us, they can find us on one of the other platforms. (Especially since we have similar stats or the same name).

Anyway. Hope you're doing well.

We are now 47 and are feeling a bit of 'mid-life crisis' emotions coming on. So, we're focusing on our fitness, pushing to get those extra few pounds to retreat. But also putting plans in place to do the things we've always wanted... so we're going on our first gay cruise next January! So excited!

We're looking forward to a few other big trips and maybe a career change or location change.

On the sexual side, we've still so much to Xplore! We've gone way beyond "Exploring 3(ways)" since we started this account. 3ways, 4gies, full out orgies, nude beaches, resorts, bathhouses, watersports, sex events/festivals (like Folsom and so on). But still so much to explore and experience.

We'd like to continue with everything mentioned above and add in some of the other exciting adventures we've always yearned for... like a true gang bang in one of our orgies, DP experiences, a tag team situation, full on body paint play (this one is tough due to the mess & where we could pull it off), play incorporating masks, hoods, dildos, and definitely more piss play.

As we grow older, we also grow more comfortable with sexuality, sexual exploration, our own physicality and bodies and our desires.

There are so many adventures to be had! Looking forward to living free and our hedonistic pursuits. To life!
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Messages in Latin
Posted:Feb 20, 2016 3:32 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2021 11:51 pm
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Hello Gold Members,

Thank you for reaching out to us and sending messages!

Unfortunately, OutPersonals has decided to display your messages in my inbox in Latin because I'm not a gold member. Previously, gold members were able to message all members.

I also no longer have the option to reply to a message.

So, I'm not ignoring you. It's a system problem/management problem.

This is why we use other services of this type instead. I was a paid sliver and gold member in the past, but return on investment was low. These kind of tactics make me not want to be a member.

We still have this account because we've had it for so long and have history. However, we are re-evaluating that decision.

Cheers,
X
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Feels like Spring
Posted:Feb 13, 2016 2:29 pm
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2016 7:26 pm
49027 Views

Hey guys!

It feels like spring out there!

It's making me horny

If interested in getting your cock sucked or fucking my ass, let us know!

Cheers!

--the Horny Fuckers.
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2015 Fucks
Posted:Dec 31, 2014 6:16 am
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2016 7:27 pm
68312 Views

How Many Different Dicks Will I Take Up My Ass in 2015?

I've got goals and hopes for many, many different dicks to fuck my ass in 2015, but your guess is as good as mine. What do you predict?

Poll will be open throughout the year ahead. I'm sure I'll leave clues in my blog, as I write about my adventures!

Have a happy, healthy and sexy new year! Happy 2015!
Just one.
2-5
17
48
10-12
52 - a new one each week!
24 - twice a month
More than 100, you lucky slut!
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Daydreams
Posted:Jul 12, 2014 11:37 am
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2015 7:18 pm
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Hi Gents,

Just feeling horny and daydreaming.

Daydreaming of: 3 or 4 Asian dudes fucking my ass. One in mind is a fuck-buddy, another came to one of our orgies. The other two are from guys whose pics/profiles I've seen online. All tops or vers/tops. Most are younger, smooth, think/slender. Nice, nice, nice.

And I daydream of: an orgy of dudes with small(er) dicks--I see them as mostly younger, thin or toned, Latino and white guys mostly, some Asian guys, maybe. This is an all out orgy with everyone naked, guys sucking each others dicks, playing with asses, kissing... I get a hard dude to start fucking me--then everyone sort of gathers around; the energy in the room is elevated. The action has gone up the next step. Someone goes behind the Latino guy fucking me and starts fucking him. Other guys in the room are stroking and watching; some are kissing and sucking and feeling assholes with fingers. A white dude sticks his dick in my mouth. My fucker comes in the condom while still in my ass. He's still getting fucked and stops his top, gets up to clean up. The dude I was sucking positions himself behind me. The one who was fucking my top puts his dick on my face, but I don't suck it because he's all lube-y. He moves onto someone else. I'm getting fucked again. This guy's not as thick and is a tiny bit longer. I enjoy that I can tell the difference. Asian guy comes over, kisses my lips, then moves up so I can suck him off. He's close. I suck on his balls and he comes. His jizz flies up all over. He wipes it off the bedspread onto his finger and sucks it. He collects it from his abdomen and shoves the cum in his mouth. He turns around, gets on all fours, spreads his asshole in front of my face. I lick him. He fondles his own softening dick, pulling the stickier and stickier cum from his slight foreskin to his tongue. He moans as I rim him deeper.

I'm still getting fucked by the white guy. But another Latino whose been jacking himself watching my ass get fucked is getting ancy. He thought the dude would've come by now. He's done waiting and gently pushes the guy fucking me--gives him a "heads up" to get out of my ass--he wants a turn. The white dude complies and pulls out, moves away, pulls off his condom. another dude standing behind him, starts caressing him and he's in another world. The Latino dude wastes no time. His dick is rock hard and he's ready. He already pulled on the condom while white boy was moving back. Now he's positioned behind me, lubing up the condom on his cock. Then he sticks it in. It's hard. It's thicker. He's not gentle. It hurts a little, but he put on a lot of lube. I guess he knows. He starts sliding. The lube helps. A lot. I can't believe how hard he is. And it feels really good--it's so nice to have the rock hard hard-on pressing against my insides.But I don't know how much I can take of it. Just when I think I'm done, he thrusts a little deeper and I stretch a little more--Ok, a little longer then. I notice that I stopped eating ass. I start in again. I love the taste of his hairless asshole, the soft feeling of the meaty almost lip like wrinkled mounds of flesh. I feel like I'm french kissing his ass lips. They taste sweet and -- fuck! that was a deep thrust. Latino cock is throbbing. He's getting close, his breathing is louder and stronger. People are starting to notice. He's speeding up. We now have an audience. He pushes in and out, sweating. He leans up and comes. He arches back and breathes in, groans, says "fuck." Everyone almost applauds. They definitely show approval on their faces, he catches their eyes, smiles, feels like he's done a good job--and is spent. He dismounts. Goes to clean up. The stud in the room is done.

I can feel the change in mood. Either we're done or... I've got to up the ante because I'm still fucking horny and I'm not done. "Hey, Michael, Carlos," I call. I see they still have semi-hard dicks. "He's stretched me out a bit... I think I'm ready." I get Michael on his back on the bed so I can sit on him. His white dick gets longer when he's hard. His dick is inside me and I'm facing him. We get Carlos to get behind me. He angles his hard dick toward my hole. Touches it and Michael's dick with the tip. I'm still tight. Stud-boy may have been thick, but two dicks is still... I'm having second thoughts--but I stop myself. I tell him "rub it on there." He does and it feels good and I relax. Carlos pulls my earlobe and I get chills. He's able to get the tip in, the head in--pauses all of us from moving. His dick is short, it's in, so we want it in. He moves himself closer and his dick gets deeper. It feels so weird to have two different sensations on either side of my ass walls. I'm actually hard. I don't usually get hard when I get fucked. Carlos pushes in deeper. I'm getting fucked by two dicks!

Stud-man has joined us again. He's noticed my hard-on, goes over and touches it. Tells the other guys to join in--so now I've got two dicks in my ass, hands on my dick, my nipples, my balls, my body. Someone strokes my dick and I come. I come. I come with two hard dicks in my ass and guys all around. Fuuuuuuck! OMFG, that's good. Carlos motions to get up/out. I brace him--and say "No. Finish." He stops, is surprised, then starts moving, thrusting. He fucks my cock filled ass until he comes.
Carlos retreats and I sit fully on Michael. I push myself all the way down. He asks, "my turn?" I say, "your turn." We're both smiling. He's more vers than top, so I know I need to power down my ass on this fucker. I start moving up and down, getting his dick deep into my ass as I can. He likes my action. Soon enough, he's coming. He's quiet about it, but his whole body convulses.

I dismount. Other guys have already jacked off or cum with friends. Everyone is getting cleaned up, some are already dressing. It's a general, "Bye, it was fun." "Need some water to take with you?" "Until next time." "Yeah, let's keep in touch." "Let's do this again." I kiss them goodbye.
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2014!
Posted:Jan 4, 2014 12:16 pm
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2014 6:03 am
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2014. I'm so looking forward to it.

I'm sad to report that my getting Ass-Fucked 3 times a week in December did not pan out. I haven't taken it at all since the last time I reported.

But, forever the optimist, I am excitedly looking forward to 2014! My goal of Consistency in Getting Ass-Fucked is still on, regardless of dates. I'm seriously thinking that designating 2 days each week (say, Wednesday night and Friday night--or Saturday afternoon) will go a long way for me to take it at least twice a week. It will be easier to set up times and dates with fuck buddies or hook ups.

I'm thinking my phrasing isn't really correct... "getting Ass-Fucked 3 times a week" kind of implies that I would have dick in my ass 3 times. I'm really talking about 3 ass-fucking sessions--there will most likely be more than one dick fucking me in each session, and even if there is only one dick, it is likely that I'd get fucked more than just once in that session.

So, to clarify my goal--3 Ass-Fuck Sessions per week.
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Fuck Goals!
Posted:Nov 30, 2013 12:24 pm
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2014 6:02 am
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Got fucked in the ass last night by two guys *and* my partner.

The first guy has a shorter and thicker dick. He's matter of fact and was all about the banging. We all played around for a while, sucking, kissing, rimming. He and I kept trying to get him inside, to fuck my tight ass. After he got off, playing around with the other guys, he tried to fuck me and was less aggressive than in earlier attempts. And I was more loosened up. So, he fucked me in a couple of positions--me standing and leaning over the bed worked best for me. He came again and left, but I wasn't done with the other guys.
Our other guest has a longer, thinner (but nice) dick. He was laying on the bed, wasn't hard, so I got on top of him, straddled him, rubbed my dick on his belly and got myself hard. He got hard again, we put a condom on him and some lube... And I sat on his dick. I wanted it so bad. I was opened up, and able to control, so I got to sit all the way down on it. He made me come a little--I felt like it was precum. But it was a lot, since I hadn't cum in a while.
My partner was there cheering us on, excited that I came while getting fucked--that it had never happened before. It was a hot moment--but I wasn't done, and his hard dick was in my ass, so I started fucking myself on his cock, riding hard until he came in his condom. It was hot.
We all got up, cleaned up, he got dressed and left.
I hadn't come yet and was still horny and wanting to fulfill my private goal. So, I told my partner--we were both still naked--to bend me over the bed and try to fuck my ass with his long, thick, uncut, curved dick. He put a condom on and a lot more lube and was gentle. He gently pushed his thick head in my wanting asshole. Then he pushed up the shaft. He got it most of the way in when I told him he could start thrusting. He fucked me for a little bit, but then it was enough for me.
But he was grateful and I was happy. We're well on our way to my goal of me taking his dick three times a week--where he can fuck me enough to cum.
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