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Julie_Tgirl 69T
1243 posts
3/5/2019 11:38 pm
I would not want the taxpayers to pay for my sex change

I did start SRS and was already living as a woman when I was approved by the docs. After being approved and already making my surgery dates for a boob job and vaginoplasty I did cancel cuz of finances. Not only would the surgeries cost money but there was also the fact of having to stay on female hormones for the rest of my life and at the time when I was going to do this HRT was very costly and not covered by too many insurances.

I would have had to go right to work as a woman to support myself and not too many employers were thinking of hiring a post op transwoman. I did not have a resume or work history as a woman to take with me to a job interview.

About 20 or so years ago I read that the city of San Francisco would fund SRS/GRS surgeries for their city employees. I did not feel this was right for taxpayers to pay the expense of someone changing sexes. This is not a life or death surgery!

More recently it has been in the news about people going into the military to try to get SRS funded. I do not feel this was quite right either. If one cannot have their surgeries by different means then that was too bad but the tax payers should not have to carry the burden.

It is difficult to get approved for one surgery but I got lucky and was approved for a second surgery. I was approved for a second chance cuz I convinced the docs that I would be living as a woman anyway and there was also a man that I was madly in love with and we planned on getting legally married as husband and wife.

Not every person that tries for surgery does get approved for it. The docs; a psychiatrist and a surgeon has to approve the surgeries and it has to be determined that the patient would be better off living as a female. If the patient changes her mind after the surgery then it is too late and there is a mutilated individual cuz once the surgery is performed it cannot be reversed. The transgendered person has to live with what has been done to her. Suicide rate is high among women like me.

As it turned out my man bailed on me leaving me high and dry and I had to cancel my rare second chance also. He was going to pay for half and I was going to pay half. This was the arrangement cuz I was going to be his woman after the surgery. My surgery dates for breast augmentation and vaginoplasty were already arranged and I had to cancel. What was sad was that I sold my half interest of a successful restaurant and my house in southern California to pay for my half of the operation.

There is no way that I would be given a 3rd chance so I just gave up on the idea and found different ways to live as a woman.





Julie_Tgirl 69T
2111 posts
3/5/2019 11:42 pm

One is a lonely number when you are all alone in your world.


Julie_Tgirl 69T
2111 posts
3/5/2019 11:45 pm

Pic 2 is of Jinks Monsoon a professional drag queen and winner of a Ru Paul drag race


Julie_Tgirl 69T
2111 posts
3/5/2019 11:46 pm

Pic 3 is of my style of underthings that I wear every day under my dresses


Julie_Tgirl 69T
2111 posts
3/5/2019 11:47 pm

#4 is that I love hooking my garter clips to my stocking welts when I'm getting dressed.


Stevie1954 61T
129 posts
3/6/2019 3:53 am

Thanks for sharing, Julie!


Julie_Tgirl replies on 3/6/2019 9:09 am:
Thanks Stevie

foreskin4u2 71M  
36 posts
3/6/2019 4:18 am

move to Mexico, change your name to Jose Perez and sneak across the border. Apply for benefits and the stupid federal government will give you what you want. Taxpayers will pick up the tab,no problem. But do it fast as the shit will soon hit the fan as U.S. runs out of money Hurry Jaun is in front of you!.


Julie_Tgirl replies on 3/6/2019 9:08 am:
That is an exaggeration of facts!

calbren 51M  
8 posts
3/6/2019 5:17 am

    Quoting foreskin4u2:
    move to Mexico, change your name to Jose Perez and sneak across the border. Apply for benefits and the stupid federal government will give you what you want. Taxpayers will pick up the tab,no problem. But do it fast as the shit will soon hit the fan as U.S. runs out of money Hurry Jaun is in front of you!.
That was rude. On more than one front. Julie's point was that she would NOT opt for a situation in which other people would pay for the surgeries. People are seeing hidden agendas and conspiracies behind every tree these days. Not everything is about politics.


Julie_Tgirl replies on 3/6/2019 9:11 am:
TY calbren...You have it right!

OnDaFence 31M/39M
27323 posts
3/6/2019 6:48 am

I/ we paid for my nose job after my accident. The insurance covered some of it but I wanted perfection not just fixed. I don't believe taxpayers or the insurance should have to pay for an elective sort of medical procedure either.


Julie_Tgirl replies on 3/6/2019 9:22 am:
We feel about the same on the subject. My sex change would not have made a difference in my physical health because other than diabetes and hepatitis that I picked up in Vietnam, the government was already taking care of those for me through the VA. The surgery might have affected my mental health cuz if I would have had it I would be having a cunt and a vagina down below now. But I am still a woman mentally now.

mstarbuck 59M
6 posts
3/8/2019 2:18 pm

I would not anyone to pay for my breast implants .It is what I want so I am happy to pay myself


Julie_Tgirl replies on 3/9/2019 12:48 am:
I am lucky cuz I do have boobs but no implants. When I started once again to live full time as a woman I started an estrogen regimen. I was not thinking about boobs at the time but I noticed that my chest was starting to swell and they were getting bigger. I contracted gynecomastia (female breast growth in males) which many males especially young males do not want and it is considered a curse. Once I found out what it was I considered it a gift and started doing everything I could to promote breast development. You and I have something in common and don't want anyone to pay for us to restructure our bodies.