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where is it wrong!
Posted:Apr 1, 2019 11:17 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2019 10:06 pm
where is it wrong for me to ask a non-confirmed member for ID before we meet? I truly feel that I have every right to be assured of my safety. To me if you have issues letting me know who you are then all types of red flags start popping up! If you don't want to show ID then get confirmed it's that simple! I finally met someone through another site that is into everything I am and not only enjoys having his way with me he totally gets off playing with me! I would still like to meet a few others for occasional hook ups but for now I'm getting more than I ever imagined!

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Just a quick thought
Posted:Feb 14, 2019 10:59 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2019 5:8 am
I wonder if every paying member on this site didn't renew their membership, leaving nothing but standard members, and all those who didn't renew stated the reason for their actions was the standard members they had written couldn't read the emails they had sent, would it get their attention and things on here would get fixed? just wondering is all, anyone who want's to chat outside this site subbttm4funfla at the . Anyone care to comment please do so! Regards The Dude!

Still waiting!
Posted:Jan 5, 2019 9:24 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2019 5:8 am

So another month has come and gone and still I'm waiting for the dominant top that has the experience, ability and desire to have fun exploring those things neither of us have experienced yet. I'm beginning to think you're not out there and if you are you either haven't seen my profile yet or your intimidated by me and that's really sad.
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Sometimes money well spent ends up being wasted!
Posted:Nov 19, 2018 9:04 pm
Last Updated:Dec 22, 2018 3:27 pm

I was away for over 5 and after returning I spent weeks building my new and improved profile, posting pictures I would never had dreamed of putting up 5 ago, and holy crap, I even have a fucking blog! I never had a gold membership, but when I had some spare change I would sign up for a 3 or 6 month silver membership. So this time around I lay out the big bucks and purchase myself a 12 month gold membership, then I learn that now standard members can't read the messages I send them! Before standard members could read my messages and I was a silver member! So I lid out more money so that standard members are able to interact with me, Guess I should have just kept my money and spent it on something I'll get some enjoyment from, because so far all I have gotten on here is a lot of players, posers, and time wasters. In the past I've met some great people from here and if my luck holds out I'll meet a few more before I die! BEWARE of the players, posers, time wasters and losers! They are out there waiting to draw you into their dens of deceit, their lairs of lies, tunnels of wasted time, and the dreaded lost land of the losers! Yes my friend, it's their purpose in their miserable lives to contact you, flatter you, tell you they want to meet you and be with you, all the while snickering behind your back, when the big hook up is planned! By time you realize you were victimized by one of these slugs of humanity the damage is done, your trust has been destroyed, confidence shattered, the humiliation slowly turns your once positive outlook on life to a dark and evil place where you no longer think about the thrill you once felt when meeting with someone! Now everyone is one of them, so you now approach every message, every comment, even every like with suspicion! Once again I warn you all! BEWARE of the PLAYERS, POSERS, TIME WASTERS and THE DREADED LOSERS!

This has been a pubic servicing nonouncement of the pubic blahcasting servicing!
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To all those who visit my profile!
Posted:Oct 17, 2018 9:01 pm
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2019 11:00 pm
This is still very much a work in progress, and yes, all of you who said I shouldn't limit this to just those in my friends network, I have seen the error of my ways, hence the rename of my blog. I will come back to work on this every chance I get, especially once I get my computer back up and running and don't have to do everything from my phone. also involved in searching for a new job as well so be patient, I will complete my work and once it has been built, they will all CUM!

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