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XplorN3 53M/53M
75 posts
12/31/2017 9:26 am
Looking toward 2018


Happy New Year, all!

It's December 31st, 2017 and we're happy to be moving into the new year.

So excited for our first gay cruise in January! We are finally doing the Atlantis 100% gay cruise!! We've been on many cruises and some even with gay groups, but never a full out and out gay cruise.

This has been on our bucket list for sure; excited that we finally get to experience it.

Anxious that we're not in the best shape (as we had hoped we'd be); wondering what kind of sexual experiences we'll be privy to.

We've heard different stories--it is what you make it. We're willing to engage sexually, so our concern is if we'll have any luck connecting. The men posting on the group chat are all toned up and buffed out. We're not in the worse shape, but certainly we've got "Dad bods." (I know some guys are into that look).

Wondering if there is going to be the attitude we run into at West Hollywood bathhouses. People holding out for better. Wondering if we'll have orgies in our room. Wondering if there'll be so many men, so much distance on the enormous ship that any and all connections have to be immediate. You can flirt, make plans, share info but be so busy with what's immediately in front of you that you never really connect.

Sort of like Burning Man that way.

But there's more technology on a cruise ship. There's a fighting chance with a phone app, cruise cards and cabin telephones; plus wipe-boards on your door.

There's also the "dick deck"... the dimly lit section of secluded hallways that lure men like a back alley in old porn movies. Anonymous, lusty, immediate.

The cruise itself we know we'll enjoy. The destinations are nice. Being around 4,000 gay men for an entire week will be an extraordinary experience all in itself. There will be some straight people, but for the most part, it will be a gay island.

Beyond that, we don't know what we'll encounter in the new year. Hope to make another trip to Burning Man; maybe visit states back east.

I'll keep looking at my lists and pushing to obtain the goals--the experiences I want to have. Keeping them in mind helps to get us in the environment to make them happen.

Looking forward to more nude adventures at Palm Springs clothing optional resorts, more Las Vegas shenanigans, more Los Angeles bathhouse action, more local hook ups exploring our fetishes and pleasuring men.

Here's to a happy and healthy new year

Cheers

Bdawg007 67M
547 posts
12/31/2017 1:15 pm

Very SWEET of you both INDEED!!! Best wishes to ALL your way, Happy New Year 2018!!! when my life is even 1/2 as adventurous... I will get back to you too!!! Have a wonderful life ahead!


Hungr4Yungr 75M
5766 posts
12/31/2017 3:24 pm

Hey, the cruise sounds like a lot of fun; if I wasn't so old I'd try one. Best of luck on getting to most of the bucket list items. Happy New Year.


OnDaFence 36M/44M

12/31/2017 3:58 pm

Stay OFF the Titanic!


jrodd 65M
4396 posts
1/1/2018 2:10 am

Rather I wait for warmer months.