Hey there!
Youngish 64, 5'4", 144, 5.5c, going to the gym 3-4 x week. Still working on taking off 4-5 more pounds, to get down to my previous set point. Pics were taken from 8/2/08, at my niece's wedding, to the PRIDE_2011 one from 6/26/11. Most recent one in the fetish album is from 3/11. Can always use more pics of all kinds, please. (Want some of me working out and in the locker room.) I am moderately hairy, with a lot of gray on my chest. I don't smoke or do drugs, and I only drink a little bit occasionally.
I live alone in the country in South Central Minnesota, near the little town of Amboy. I moved here to spend some quality time with my parents, which was important, but they are gone now. I'm working on selling my house, and finding a new job in the Twin Cities, in order to move back up there ASAP! I visit Minneapolis every 1-2 months. I like sexual adventures, but I am very willing to meet just for coffee, to see what potential there might be for friendship. I have usually stayed with my brother, in his small apartment, so I was unable to host up there. I now alternate staying with him, and with a pansexual couple, whom I call my "leather family". I'll be permitted to have people over there, but I will probably limit that to kinky play, with people I've met ahead of time.
New friends, including couples, are always welcome. Finding a nice man for an LTR again would make me very happy! I value intelligence, openness and honesty, humor, kindness and loyalty. In a relationship, monogamy is possible, but I don't require it.
Currently, my life is rather quiet. But historically, my interests include activism, politics, building gay community, AIDS work, social work and mental health, performing arts, gardening, genealogy, antiques, dancing, hiking and camping, watching some sports -- and now internet and working out. I am a Methodist preacher's kid ... not very religious now, but I can appreciate spirituality in others. I attended Phillips Exeter Academy (paperboy scholarship), Carleton College (sociology), and the University of Minnesota (social work). I am licensed as a clinical social worker, and seeking work in human services or mental health. I do a little online counseling with GLBT clients.
For vanilla sex, I am mostly a bottom these days, but an assertive and active one. I like to get fucked, safely of course. If you are also not a top, we can probably still figure out ways to have fun! Mutual oral is very enjoyable, but I think of it more as foreplay. I could get you off that way, however. Rimming and buttplay are sexy. Toys are helpful when two bottoms get together, or when the top is really tired! LOL Kissing and a little cuddling can be great. It is pretty wonderful just to be lying naked next to a nice man with a nice, warm body.
I like giving, getting, or trading playful (or more serious!) spanking. That has been a major fantasy area since before puberty. You don't have to be into that, but it helps if you are willing to try it (more open about age, size, body type, and marital status, for spankplay than for just sex alone). I have been branching out into other BDSM activities, and I am open to suggestions. I am 60-70% top for spanking & kink, but I cheerfully bottom for many things. Rarely submissive but often willing! 
I can host. The season is unfortunately winding down now, for being naked outside, and play in the barn, sheds, and woods. Had a couple great barn parties this last summer.
I like to make a definite appointment to meet, preferably in advance. (Why is this difficult?) Then I do show up. How about you?
If you are a Gold Member, you can see my IM info. So if you want to chat, go ahead and add me. Just say you saw me here. Thanks!
Take care (and WHAP!),
David
My Ideal Person:
Character, personality and perhaps liveliness are most important, in a friend, sexbuddy, or possible partner. Not all older men are appealing to me, but some I do find attractive. I want to be available to men around my age, particularly for friendship, and who knows where that might lead? 50's and 40's can be hot, and I like younger guys too! HWP is always nice, and a few extra pounds are okay. It helps if you have a pic. If you like yourself and have a sexy attitude, that will make up for a lot of flaws! I prefer non-smokers, but I am more than willing to spank your ass for smoking ... might help you quit.
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