My Ideal Person:
I'm new to the gay scene so I need someone patient. I am looking for someone older (I like older men, but don't age discriminate either way), who is mostly looking for a few casual encounters, but if something else comes of that that's great.

Mostly just someone who knows what they want and can maybe show me some of the ropes.

At some point I'd like to start taking hormones, get my tongue pierced, and get a tatoo on the small of my back, and I would want someone (if interested in more than casual encounters) who is OK with this and supportive/excited by this.

I'm into light BDSM, can tell you more if interested (Mostly just collarplay, being shackled, and being dominated but no pain/bleeding/animal play though I don't mind dressing as one).