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OK so another update... I've been single for a little while now just hadn't realized I hadn't changed my information. While most labels aren't important the difference between friends and boyfriends is one that I consider important. So until it's made official I'm open to anything, whether it be sex or friendship or if you also want to see if you're relationship material. I'm looking for an age range of 18 to 25, absolutely no older in the relationship sense. If you want to try for something sexual and you're older be aware that I'll probably say no but I have made exceptions in the past. As for friends, as long as you speak to me in a friendly way and not in the "let's fuck" way I'm willing to talk to you, but again if I don't do not take it personally it just means you didn't spark my interest. So don't be offended if I say no, rejection happens it's those that can roll with it and keep going that I admire even if I don't like you. I'll be much more likely to be like "cool guy"
My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for a guy or group of guys who have some experience and are willing to go slow for someone who's pretty green yet when it comes to sex. I'm up for a lot of stuff and I'll usually go for it just let me know first. I'm looking for a serious relationship a little bit too, but I need someone who can understand that there's only a select few that can know and that we can be openly around in my life. I get really frustrated with homo/bisexuals that accept the degrading labels that society gives them like "queer" or "fag". To me it's like when the African American sector call each other terms used by slave owners in the 1800's, and you know what terms I mean. When we accept these labels or use them like they weren't coined to degrade us we allow society to do the same and we allow them to look at us as unequal members of society and slow change and reformations for equality. The term "gay" would upset me too but it's almost like the accepted abbreviated term for homosexual like white and black are accepted abbreviated terms for Caucasian and African American and I believe that is a term that helps people accept that this is an important sector of society that has been integrated in it for years. That's just a little bit to show you how I think on things, I'm very opinionated and have no issues voicing these opinions. When you feel strongly about something you should let people know how you feel, but at the same time if you have no facts backing your convictions before you voice your opinion you should make sure you know what your talking about so if people ask you to validate your feelings you don't look ignorant or gullible. Anyway that's enough of that, email me if you have the requirements I've stated before. If you're older and want to know the reason I'm not interested in you it's very simple. I think if you are a guy that is older you should want someone who is your age, because I know I sure do. I think if you're trying to recapture some kind of youth by getting with young guys you're gonna do the opposite because the increased whatever they have due to their age is just going to make your decreased seem even more so. Also, I know that when i was fifteen, i looked for guys that were around fifteen. Now that I'm twenty I look for guys around the age of twenty and it's simply because I know I have a much better chance of being on the same level of maturity and thought, and that we're probably going to have similar goals. And I didn't write that to get emails from older guys saying they're the exception or they think it's cool and just wanted to say so. Really, I am absolutely 100% certain that I don't want to hear from you b/c it's a waste of my time. If that's a little harsh for you I'm sorry that's not my intention. I'm just trying to show you I mean what I say at all times.
What are your favorite television shows?:
Charmed, Buffy the Vampire Slayer
What are your favorite movies?:
Superstar, The Cheetah Girls
Tell us what you're reading now.:
nothing but textbooks
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