My Ideal Person:
I am looking for someone to have some fun times with. Age doesn't make a HUGE difference, but I do prefer younger, smaller men who are disease and drug free. I prefer a bottom but also enjoy mutual oral sex and mutual JO. Men of color--blacks, Hispanics, Asians--are an extra turn-on. Ultimately, I am looking for someone for a long-term relationship. I was in a gay, live-in relationship for 28 1/2 years, so I'm not the kind of guy who vanishes when the water gets hot. That relationship has been dissolved for three years, and I'm tired of crawling into an empty bed. However, while the bedroom exploits are exciting, it's my belief that it's in the day-to-day living where the rubber really hits the road as far as a relationship is concerned. I understand that personal goals and dreams need to be pursued and that job/career demands must be dealt with. I'm not looking to take care of someone nor to be taken care of, other than in the normal give-and-take of daily living. It would be nice to find someone who understands that "two mules pull this wagon" when it comes to operating a house and land. Though at 60, I am not at the height of my physical attractiveness nor my sexual vitality and prowess (I'm working on both!), it would be nice to have someone to share life with. I feel that I am very loyal, but I don't plan to promise again that I will never have a fling outside a relationship, nor would I expect that promise from a partner. Been there, done that, and have seen the negative results. I know how most guys are (just the nature of men, I think), and I know that an outside escapade can happen. I realize that's a lot to be looking for in one person, but along with being a realist, I am also a dreamer, and I have a lot of love to give.