Is anyone else tired? Tired of coming home to an empty house? Tired of wondering when the right guy is ever going to come along? Tired putting yourself out there, only to find out that you're putting more into a relationship than the other guy was ever going to? Tired of looking for a soulmate? Tired of feeling the high of a relationship? To feel in love, and to be crushed when it does not work out.
But, I will do it again! It is the only way to find what I'm looking for. I want more. Well, let's be honest. I want it all. I want a conversation to last more than 5 minutes and involve anything (actually everything), including politics, family, our day, our fantasies (I'm still a dude that wants to have sex as often as possible), our life goals. Yep, I'm gonna say it. I want to love him so much it hurts...and know that he loves me the same in return. A man that is not afraid to date from afar at first. And should the time ever come to take things to the next step, someone that is okay with a guy moving close to them to continue the growth of our relationship. See, I don't want much. Haha.
Well, as you now know...I'm a gay guy. A 29 y/o, 6'2", 170# guy. I lead an active and healthy lifestyle and expect that I will end up with someone that leads the same. I partake in and provide both traditional and alternative exercise and health care.
I love to do things, pretty much anything. I enjoy the outdoors and being with nature, working on house projects, landscaping, sports, learning, having drinks with friends, lying by the pool, etc.
I am a very loyal person to my family and friends. They are everything to me. I will not sacrifice them for you, so don't expect me to. I will not of you. What I imagine is that you will become one of them to me and me to you. I do not understand the concept of cheating on someone you love. I do not understand the concept of an open relationship. Shoot, I could never even date two guys at the same time.
I have a great job. But more importantly, I have a great sense of motivation. I am rarely content with where I am, and I am always striving toward that next goal. Depending on the genre of the goal, it may stay the same for years...others may change overnight. But I always strive for a goal, to better myself. I know that I am not perfect, but I also know that I'm one hell of a good catch. I guess that may be what makes me so picky as well. I deserve a great person. I believe that most people do and that a great person in my mind may not be in someone else's. So, with that in mind, I do not believe in "lowering my standards" or accepting anything but the best. I may not be the best for you...but I am for someone. I just want to know where the hell that person is!
I've been in long relationships before. And I am ready to live my life with the man that I fall in love with. I have been in love a few times. Each different. Each leaving a heartache when the relationship ended.
I believe that you must fight for something that you want and/or need. If not love, what else? Many obstacles that others find not worth trying to maneuver, I believe you have to. It is the challenges in the relationship that let you learn about someone. Are they willing to fight? Are they willing to sacrifice something? Am I?
Well, you have learned a lot about me. Anything else...you are gonna have to find out another time. I wish you all the best...in whatever you are looking for. So, if you wanna chat to see if we are compatible for having some fun that is cool. Let's see where it goes. Good luck to all!
Update - If you want to chat, that is great. I'm not looking for anything else. I'm currently dating a great guy. Wish us luck. I'll do the same for you.
My Ideal Person:
What am I looking for in a guy? Perfection.
Perfection is in the eye of the beholder. I'm not perfect, but I'm one hell of a catch. You may not be perfect either, but you may be perfect to me. Those imperfections...don't hide them. They are what make you and it may be what I end up loving about you. Just because it annoys someone else, does not mean it will annoy me.
I'm into guys that are at least trying to stay in shape. Not into making a scene about the importance of being gay and that everyone knows that I like to fuck around with guys. Not because I'm ashamed, but because it shouldn't matter to anyone else who I have in my bed. Yet, it is important that people understand that this is me. Not into really feminine guys. I want a masculine guy. I'm a top, but can be versatile. Love can make you do anything, eh? lol.
I want a guy that is motivated about and/or by something. What do you want to do? Where do you want to be down the road? Are you the guy that I can curl up with on the couch and fall asleep with in my arms. Oh, and I'm still human...a guy that loves sex. Crazy amount...sure. Crazy places...sure. Crazy positions...sure. As long as it doesn't involve pain...I'm pretty much game. lol. So, are you game?
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