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How do I contact members?

  1. Log into OutPersonals.
  2. Enter your username and password.
  3. Click the "Login" button.
  4. Locate the profile you wish to contact.
  5. Once on the member’s profile page, scroll down to the middle of the page to find the email form "Send user an email" or click the "Send an email" link located in the "Interact" section.
  6. Enter a subject and message.
  7. Click on the checkboxes for "if you want to save a copy of a message", "attach a copy of your profile", "get emailed when your message is read", or "invite the member to your network" features. (Optional)
  8. Fill in the Confirm Number.
  9. Click the "Click to send the above message" button.

How do I search for other members?

  1. Log into OutPersonals.
  2. Enter your username and password.
  3. Click the "Search" link in the navigation bar.
  4. You can search for a member’s handle (or "username"), or you can use the form available to search by criteria you selected.
  5. Click the "Search" button.
  6. If you would like to save the search setting enter a title for the search and click "Save" (Premium members only)

How do I get email from other members?

When you get mail, it will appear in your free Message Center. To open your Message Center:

  1. Log into your account.
  2. Click on the Inbox button on the top navigation bar.
  3. This will open your Inbox and show you any messages that you have received. (CC/Copied messages can be found in your Sent Messages folder)

What if it says my password is incorrect?

There could be several reasons why your password and username are not matching up. Try using your browser's "back" button to return to the log in screen. Clear the fields and enter your information again. If this still does not work, we suggest that you use the automated password/username lookup form. Other causes could include:

  • Your account has been deleted during our review process. Please check your email inbox for a notice regarding this matter.
  • You've updated your account and have a new password. Please check your email inbox for your new password and try to log-in again.
  • Please clear your browsers cache, and make sure you aren't using a Bookmark or Hotlist link.

I'm not getting my password or other emails from OutPersonals!

Most email providers now routinely employ anti-spam software. Unfortunately, because of the number of emails OutPersonals sends out, your email provider might be classifying some OutPersonals messages as spam. To make sure that you receive email from other OutPersonals members, as well as announcements and updates, please select your email provider from the list below and follow the instructions provided.

A note on receiving OutPersonals email:
Occasionally, you might receive a large amount of email from OutPersonals in one day. Even if you don't want to read all the emails at once, please do not report any email from OutPersonals as junk or spam. If you do that, it's likely that all your future OutPersonals emails will be labeled as spam, and you won't receive them.

Choose your email provider:

1. Do not click the "Junk" button when you are viewing any OutPersonals email. Marking one OutPersonals email as junk will cause all other emails from OutPersonals to be automatically delivered to your Junk Email folder and deleted.

2. Check your Junk Email folder. If you find an email from OutPersonals in your Junk Email folder, open the email and click the "Not Junk" button.

3. Complete the following steps to ensure that you receive all future OutPersonals emails:

  a) Choose "Options" at the upper right of your inbox screen.

b) Choose the first mail option, "Junk E-Mail Protection."

c) Choose the link, "Safe List."

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