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ScoutHsv 61 M
1  Article
The apology for the action "NO".   7/30/2011

A few years ago I was an apartment maintenance manager with the ability to use empties during the day as I would be cleaning or rebuilding them. I met a guy online at squirt and told him that I fix and repair apartment units and gave him the address. While working on one unit during my lunch he called me and asked if we could meet and I said sure thing.

He never told me he was uncut. I ...


2 Comments, 298 Views, 13 Votes ,5.16 Score
hardreed 39 M
1  Article
Try not to offend.   5/24/2008

(photo hardreed]When guys find me attractive to them, I try always to be kind, even when they are not my ideal. Many friends that I have today, are my friends because I took time to look beyond my first impression of them, and found a great guy. However this is only my personal opinion, but it works for me. _Reid...


2 Comments, 193 Views, 16 Votes ,5.19 Score
84bigguy 60 M
3  Articles
How do I say no?   4/17/2008

What way is the best way to say no and not offend someone?


1 Comments, 124 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
lincs1969 55 M
1  Article
No Thanks?   8/10/2007

Why is it people generally don't like to come straihght to the point and if they're not interested in meeting just say so? I have on several occasions spent hours on line chatting and making arrangements to meet. When towards the end of the conversation either find the other person starts making ridiculous excuses or even worse doesn't turn up. Is it just me who experiences these timewasters ...


4 Comments, 120 Views, 15 Votes ,5.58 Score
Genisse 66 M
1  Article
No, Thank You....   3/13/2007

My names Genisse Piyama Stark...or that was the name I gave myself when I finally had the tight young-looking body and face I wanted along with a round butt that jutted out deliciously and a pair of new c-cups that sported my huge nipples very enticingly. If it wasn't for my cock I would make any girl jealous!!! I'm a 5'7", slim, tight-bodied, caramel-brown-skinned lady-boy with short, Auburn, ...


2 Comments, 275 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
Friend862 39 M
8  Articles
Listing.   1/25/2007

dear freind when some elder person order us we does need to ful fill the order and we must need to listing the voice of the older men it is a good thing if u take this thing easily u will never face difficulties in ur life got is friends. Thanks u .


2 Comments, 106 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
pirate52 70 M
5  Articles
4 is a crowd   12/29/2006

I had met a couple who wanted a bi man to play with.The man's wife liked to take some pics and would occasionally join us.I was cool with the set up and did not mind being on film.I got a call from my friends one day asking if I was free that weekend for some fun.I told them Saturday afternoon was the only time I had.After some discussion it was arranged for us to meet at a local motel.I ...


4 Comments, 545 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
averjoe22 43 M
3  Articles
Sometimes...   11/5/2006

Does anyone really think they should be polite or rude when saying no thanks?


3 Comments, 113 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
teaser30 45 M
1  Article
Why are some people incapable of saying "No, thanks"?   9/23/2006

Since when is it cooler to say "ok, we'll talk tomorow" and then disappear forever? Isn't that at least rude? Have the guts and say it when you are not -or no longer- interested! Or you can always use an excuse- you know, like "my cat passed away" or something, but just say something!


3 Comments, 99 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
WesVB 35 M
1  Article
You Just Don't Do It.   8/30/2006

You Don't Say NO! Unless They Have An STD. Then You Can Say No....


4 Comments, 211 Views, 10 Votes
kinkywade 66 M
2  Articles
Why?   7/15/2006

Do you wonder why you feel guilty when you say 'NO'. Or do you really only say 'no' timidly or even 'well, no or --stammer, stammer--. The reasons can be varied and complicated but you need results not psychoanalyzing right? So try this and you will see it works. First of all remember you have a 'right to say NO": perfect and simple. 1) practice That's right; like any new habit it ...


0 Comments, 95 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
jakelet 73 M
5  Articles
Beware   7/3/2006

I was recently a member on an all male site and two weeks ago started to receive rather strange notes from some guy I had never met. He called me all kinds of wierd things like "granpa" (I am one). And "You ain't Southern". Never said I was. I live in Denver. OK now here's the scary part. He repeatedly sent me mail of all kinds of put-downs. But then he called me by my full name (last name ...


1 Comments, 603 Views, 24 Votes ,5.63 Score
wizeguy_84 38 M
1  Article
how do u do it without hurting a persons feelings   5/30/2006

why is it when u tell some one ur not interested they get all mad? how do you say where they wont get mad? (i mean i dont want to hurt egos but hell dont get mad at me for saying..)


8 Comments, 269 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
KENZOE 52 M
1  Article
THANKS ,BUT NO THANKS .( I THINK )   1/30/2006

I'M A . I MUST BE. I FIND IT NEARLY IMPOSSIBLE TO SAY NO THANKS WHEN I'M BEING PURSUED BY A HOT GUY.IT'S NOT EVEN THAT I FIND THAT IN ITSELF THAT STRANGE. I HAVE SLEPT WITH GUYS WHO WERE CUTE BUT REALLY HELD NO INTEREST FOR ME.WHY ? AM I DOING IT JUST TO BE POLITE ? IS THERE SOME PART OF ME TRYING TO MAKE ALL THESE LONESOME GUYS FEEL SPECIAL? IS IT MY EGO GETTING THE BEST OF ME TO THE POINT ...


1 Comments, 272 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
smokinindenver 61 GC
1  Article
"I Say" "You Say" ....   1/20/2006

Here's how I handle the problem of not being interested should I get to the point with someone where we meet face to face. <br> . Before we meet up, I tell them I have a policy that should I not be interested in them physicallly, I'm going to be honest up front. And that I will not be offended nor should they feel it it akward if they should find themselves not attracted to me ...


0 Comments, 233 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
sbizzle80 43 M
1  Article
Whats wrong with me?   1/6/2006

Recently I was in a relation that didnt last very long and I knew it wouldnt. I broke it off with him and have been single ever since. The relationship before that was like 2 years ago. I havent had sex since then and If I really like the guy I usually hold off until the big "L" word comes to play. The moral of the story is, I find myself turning down every open oppurtunity to date a guy ...


4 Comments, 378 Views, 15 Votes ,5.27 Score
hotfor269 46 BC
1  Article
interested?   12/17/2005

Why dont people say there not interested if there not, instead of the countless emails that end up goin nowhere....


0 Comments, 182 Views, 10 Votes ,5.58 Score
cdforfun69 40 M
11  Articles
ugly hair missing teeth   11/30/2005

i met up with a guy once who shared a pic of himself with me and he looked like a stud......i met him and he weighed atleast 300 pounds...hadent shaved in days reeked like stale alcohol and cigar smoke...and his teeth were rotting away....all i could say was "you twisted fucker...why would you mislead me?? and expect me to do anything with your ugly ass??


1 Comments, 427 Views, 22 Votes ,6.13 Score
VashtisunofRa 43 M
9  Articles
I'm not a public restroom because I'm gay!   11/7/2005

I understand that living in the life , most think that we are suppose to give it up to everyone that wants to lay us, but this may be true for those who live a life that they need to feel loved, And those who do I love you the same but how do you feel when he getts up and leaves and never calls you, or a simple hello, when you are out and about, I've been there and I'm more then a stop ...


4 Comments, 740 Views, 25 Votes ,4.90 Score
hoponpop59 64 M
1  Article
feelings   10/22/2005

Why is it some cannot take no thanks for an answer. I am not a judgemental person but still I do have standards and stick by them. Nonetheless some cannot accept your no and keep pestering you till you have no choice but to either ignore or be nasty about it. Surely there must be an easier way to get your point across.


0 Comments, 460 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
lookingforfun623 56 M
3  Articles
no thanks then why be here   7/16/2005

i know alot of the people are here to meet people and have a good time. but why say no thanks when you find out they are a little on the big side. big people need attention to. i am not saying we should meet everyone but talk to the people and get to know them, before saying no thanks.


1 Comments, 690 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
kiwitigerz 44 M
2  Articles
I wont let his wife watch us, whats your expereince on this?   7/5/2005

I've being having an affair with one guy in particular on a regular basis and he continually asks me to do it with him in front of his wife. Everytime he asks I have to remind him that I'm not up for that kind of thing. I tell him if its with another guy yeah thats kewl but not a chic. His wife knows of me but she doesnt know we're meeting and they're into 3somes, but they're not allowed ...


11 Comments, 1323 Views, 29 Votes ,3.14 Score
Daddyslittleboy 53 M
1  Article
Cut or Uncut - The debate!   4/27/2005

This is all a personal stance I know. Personally I LOVE a big foreskin. It's the one thing I get really disappointed with by american guys especially. Hardly any have a skin! And depending how severly they've been cut can cause realy problems if you're trying to wank off a guy with nothing there. You need, spit, lube for gods sake I've used margerine and butter!!! Not for anal of course. ...


7 Comments, 664 Views, 36 Votes ,4.96 Score
jazz05 72 M
7  Articles
snooker balls   4/21/2005

I was just beginning to change , from the passage of to . suddenly I was getting wet dreams . although I did not know what they were at the time . I was getting pubic hair round my balls and dick . I was getting erections at the least change in the wind , never mind looking up a girls skirt . I was also smoking , then there was the snooker hall . since I was wearing long trousers ...


1 Comments, 593 Views, 21 Votes ,3.00 Score
stevetrip 60 M
1  Article
If you aren't interested in somebody...   4/19/2005

say "no thanks" why is that so hard? "Sparing someone's feelings" is just toying with somone's feelings by going along and going along and going along until you're so fed up that it blows up? That would be devastating! it's better to be honest and pull the bandaid off quick--it hurts for a minute but you get over it quicker and you dont have all the mess to clean up afterwards. All in all ...


2 Comments, 262 Views, 16 Votes ,5.04 Score
Maxjax 61 M
1  Article
Am in a situation now where i need to say no   3/14/2005

I have met a guy online and we have had some cam-2-cam. We exchanged phone #'s and now he calls several times a day. We have not met, but I am no longer interested in him. I discovered he is on medication for a nervous condition and was hospitalized for not taking it last month. He is on permanent work disability because of this disorder. I want to let him down, but not crash. What do ...


4 Comments, 872 Views, 25 Votes ,4.57 Score
mark_young 39 M
1  Article
70!   1/31/2005

Hiya, to is mainly about an expereience i had, i was on a dating service and this 72 yr old man was very interested in me. <br> Somehow he found my email address and kept emailing me 15 times a day. this man was obesessed with me. in the end i changed my email address and i cheacked the old email the other month and i had 75 emails. <br> It was a wierd experience and would ...


4 Comments, 747 Views, 20 Votes ,2.10 Score
gj28552 54 M
10  Articles
No thanks without Pain   1/29/2005

How do you say "no thanks" without causing pain. This is a tough one however you have to be honest with the person but be kind and gentle. I don't believe in being belligerant by screaming, "you are not who you said you were" you have to politely say, "for me, I had a different picture of who you were in my mind". Then explain what your perception of this date was supposed to be and ...


0 Comments, 241 Views, 19 Votes ,3.26 Score
youwantsome 36 M
6  Articles
is there a "right" way to say no thanks?   1/12/2005

we have all at one time or another been faced with the unfortunate task of turning someone down. i hate being rejected and i also really despise rejecting others. it is truly no fun for either party involved, and it is the rare case that the rejected person walks away from the experience without his feathers getting ruffled. i think that this situation could be significantly improved if ...


5 Comments, 508 Views, 37 Votes ,5.69 Score
BJ304U 43 M
4  Articles
no   1/7/2005

I think it is hard to say no to someone. If they aren't what you are looking for, it's a must. I hope to know the guy pretty well before we meet. If I had to say no face to face, that would really be hard.


0 Comments, 232 Views, 15 Votes ,2.06 Score
biboy38 54 M
2  Articles
Don't KNow what to Say   12/20/2004

When someone emails me that I am not interested in and I respond politely, they end up being offended and rude no matter how polite I am. We are all adults on the site (that is old enough to be here), but some guys are very childish when being told "no thanks". If some tells me that, then that is that. I do not respond with insults, for many of them aren't interested for age or distance ...


6 Comments, 607 Views, 56 Votes ,7.36 Score
Btmmontcnty2 69 M
3  Articles
Tried to say no   12/17/2004

This actually happened to me, though it was a while ago back in the cruising days. I had been cruising this local gay area and got picked up by this handsome guy, he wasn't American and spoke very little English. My biggest mistake was getting into his car and leaving with him. Ok, so your saying how did that work out if he didn't speak much English. He whipped it out showing me a fat 8 1/2 ...


1 Comments, 1063 Views, 52 Votes ,4.46 Score
johan_411 43 M
16  Articles
Is Education Worth It?   12/6/2004

This will sound like a story from a hollywood movie. I was 20, and needed money for college. I had just moved from Minnesota to California. The college required me to pay $4000 out of state tuition per semester. In addition to buying books, paying for my car, car insurance, and my daily expenses. My tab came out to about $15000 a year. I looked for a job, and found one at the ...


1 Comments, 734 Views, 34 Votes ,5.31 Score
johan_411 43 M
16  Articles
Why?   11/25/2004

I recently went on a trip to San Francisco, and walked through the cradle of Global Gayness (the Castro). As I walked through this sacred realm of homosexuality, I felt as if I did not belong. With its obviously "alternative" choice in lifestyle, and decorum. Rainbow flags waving proudly. Men walking down the street with their asses literally hanging out. I began to question the point ...


4 Comments, 715 Views, 50 Votes ,7.92 Score
tluver33 51 M
1  Article
how do u say no without hurting somones feelings   10/28/2004

how do u turn someond down without hurting them? i tried im not interested. i tried sorry your not my type. what is a best phrase to use


1 Comments, 216 Views, 11 Votes ,2.42 Score
esohorny 66 M
4  Articles
Way too big   9/19/2004

I met this guy through a friend of mine and we hit it off immediately.We talked for a while and soon got close.He invited me home and I accepted.We discussed our preferences in bed and he said that he really wanted to be inside me and I accepted his offer, being a willing bottom.He stressed almost too much how he wanted my ass, but I just passed this off as enthusiasm.I had been into anal ...


0 Comments, 1007 Views, 100 Votes ,7.55 Score
wvceltic001 55 M
1  Article
Anal stimulation can cause orgasm   9/5/2004

I`ve been a frequent masturbator since I was very young and started at a very young age inserting fingers or objects into my ass. I still frequently masturbate and often use toys for stimulation. I have only had one experience with another man and that was years ago. And unfortunately he lacked good skills and equipment, but I was so horny for it at the time I eagerly allowed the ...


3 Comments, 513 Views, 52 Votes ,5.75 Score
veryunique 40 M
1  Article
protest too much?   6/8/2004

It seems like all the people that are claiming that they were "" don't mention anything helpful or say how they pressed charges, etc. I know that there is an "embarassment" factor, but sometimes one has to look at what is best for others.


0 Comments, 139 Views, 18 Votes ,4.90 Score
va69er 52 M
10  Articles
Manners and Tact? Dealing with rejection!   5/21/2004

All of us are on this site and online in general for various reasons. Some are looking for sex, others maybe a relationship and others just to relieve boredom. One thing that I have noticed in some chat rooms with guys are that how angry and childish they get at times, especially when you tell them that you are not interested for whatever reason! <br> If a young guy gets hit on ...


2 Comments, 93 Views, 38 Votes ,7.39 Score
sharmota66 51 M
1  Article
concerns over detention of alleged gays in EGYPT   4/4/2004

Amnesty International is gravely concernsd about the ongoing detention of scores of men in EGYPT in connection with their sexual orientation.Then also facing a heigtened risk of torture in police staionand prison , I was in egypt before I come to U S A the land of freedom , not based on relgion Egypt have 3 relgions christians, mouslem , jew so the proplem is the people , the goverment ...


0 Comments, 114 Views, 25 Votes ,4.46 Score
Studlyboykisser 42 M
2  Articles
I need a younger guy!   11/13/2002

I have known about This Outpersonals for quite a while. What I really do not understand is why do I pick up other guys that are 2wice the age as I am? I am only 22 years old, and this one guy Emailed me. He was 44 yrs old. I mean seriously, why do some people think that younger guys will need an older guy?? I am new at this, so I need to take things slower than some other people that ...


3 Comments, 540 Views, 251 Votes ,0.55 Score