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qasim786 36M
159 posts
4/19/2017 4:58 am
Hope it Helps


ANAL PAIN and HOW to MINIMIZE or AVOID IT:

When it comes to anal sex, the perfect situation is when you find a great partner who relaxes you and really loosens you up. If you are a bottom and sometimes experience pain during anal sex, you may get frustrated. If you are and want to be a bottom it is because you take more pleasure out of that role. To be versatile is to be able to jump from top to bottom without losing pleasure during the sex session. A lot of gay men are versatile but choose one of the roles more often. If you are a versatile bottom, even if you do not practice sex very often, bottoming is what really turns you on. While bottoming, there might be a few times when it is comfortable and great and others when the pain does not let you concentrate on the pleasure. Do you remember the first time you bottomed? It probably hurt a bit, maybe it did not hurt that much. But for those whom the pain was really bad, the first thought that came to their mind is that bottoming is not their thing. Take my example as a solution to your anal sex woes: I got my first bike when I was a kid and like all the big kids around, I wanted to ride it all day. But every time I took it outside and tried, I kept falling and falling. One day I gave up and ran inside, crying and losing all hope. I vowed to never touch it again. I liked to ride, but it was just too painful. My mom wiped my tears and said, “Don’t worry my dear, practice makes perfect. When you fall, just pick yourself up, relax, take a deep breath and ride, ride again!”

It is the same answer that we give to all who want to master their techniques, especially with bottoming: practice, practice and more practice. As humans we always try to run from the pain, it is only natural.
Try out these tips to avoid pain:
1. Relax and drive your mind away from the thought of pain. Believe me it is possible. The more you concentrate on your arousal and your partners, the more you can relax. A relaxed anus helps to avoid pain.
2. Try different positions. Anal sex does not have a manual, there are different penis lengths as well as different anus sizes and even shapes; to each couple comes the decision of trying different sex positions and forms of penetration to understand which are the ones that gives them more pleasure.
3. Try a small sex toy. Either by yourself or with your partner, you can explore the pleasure and the pain and try to figure what you can do, which position to take, and if it persists, where exactly does it come from.

In ending, it might be up to you to avoid the pain, but before sexing you can never tell. A big arousal can often help with that decision. Some practice will do you good. However, if the pain persists, you should stay safe and never miss seeing your doctor for problems like anal fissure or hemorrhoids or some other medical condition.

Enjoy safely, gay life is far more fun than many of us know or want to know.

BEING ON MY KNEES, KNEES & SHOULDERS OR EVEN ON MY BACK DOES NOT ALTER MY STATURE.


qasim786 36M
384 posts
4/19/2017 5:00 am

Please comment.

BEING ON MY KNEES, KNEES & SHOULDERS OR EVEN ON MY BACK DOES NOT ALTER MY STATURE.


qasim786 36M
384 posts
4/19/2017 5:01 am

XOXOXO 1111111111111

BEING ON MY KNEES, KNEES & SHOULDERS OR EVEN ON MY BACK DOES NOT ALTER MY STATURE.


qasim786 36M
384 posts
4/19/2017 5:01 am

XOXOXOXO 22222222222

BEING ON MY KNEES, KNEES & SHOULDERS OR EVEN ON MY BACK DOES NOT ALTER MY STATURE.


qasim786 36M
384 posts
4/19/2017 5:01 am

XOXOXOXO 333333333333333333

BEING ON MY KNEES, KNEES & SHOULDERS OR EVEN ON MY BACK DOES NOT ALTER MY STATURE.


whitehouse 66M
869 posts
4/19/2017 6:00 am

Being a bottom back then. I also learn that being clean on the inside makes having anal sex so much more enjoyable. I have taken all sizes and lengths of cocks.


OnDaFence 29M/37M  
15818 posts
4/19/2017 6:27 am

takes experience and a good patient top.


flipflop87 29M
711 posts
4/19/2017 6:43 am


Nice thoughts, Qasim babe. See ya soon.


JoRay63 54M
44 posts
4/19/2017 10:47 am

Nice story!! My first time it kinda hurt , and I was the top we had a lot of foreplay before !!!!!!!!!


houdini1953 64M  
32 posts
4/19/2017 12:49 pm

Yes the first time did hurt some. But as you say different positions and more practice makes thing much better. I found the first few times if I rode it I could control the speed and the depth it went in. Now it feels very natural. Now I can take it most any way. An if I can get a nice young guy that's not to big an can last it's great watching his face as he try's to hold back as long as he can.


Hungr4Yungr 68M
2662 posts
4/19/2017 6:50 pm

Well said. Thanks for posting.


jrodd 59M
1764 posts
4/19/2017 9:01 pm

Some people will never learn.


jrodd 59M
1764 posts
4/20/2017 2:07 am

Some people I believe are genetically or biologically different . I once thought everyone has a body therefore everyone should be physically the same ,well not so I found out the hard way this logical conclusion did not "FIT" the same.Thus you have Tops and Bottoms with reverse statements vastly opposing feelings about anal sex.I heard bottoms could not even stand the idea of doing Top and the idea of stick thiers in disgusting even ,tops would be in horror being penetrated .You cant convince them in any way .You will not get anyone to do other than what they were fixed into biologically .WHY? I DONT KNOW? And your advice may or may not work worth a damn cause were not similar we are "Aliens living together sharing a planet" not human race ,We are all connected "Koombaya"


qasim786 replies on 4/21/2017 4:52 am:
Thank you for your opinion... You are always right.