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qasim786 36M
159 posts
4/19/2017 4:52 am
First Gay Experience


First Time gay Sex
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Gay men’s first encounters with other men’s erections can be strange and complex experiences. There’s excitement. We’ve got there. We’ve got him stripped to his intimate, naked self. He’s upright and hard just for you, his excitement obvious and visible. There’s also the shock of reality. The color and texture of his cock and balls may appear far more different from the surrounding skin than you’ve been able to imagine it and then, amidst this shock, there’s the need to perform.

How might we begin to prepare? A few tips are obvious. Make sure there is real emotional intimacy between partners instead of a random or desperately sought encounter.{I am NOT suggesting or recommending against the casual, random one night encounters at all} His nakedness then will seem more clearly right and nonthreatening. You’ll be able to be open with each other as you become more aroused. Be sure as well that your inexperience is known by him – and his experience or otherwise by you. You both need to know where you stand, the better to support each other. Don’t rush things. Take your time for lots of foreplay to enjoy and get to know each other’s body. Go step by step, touch before sucking, and only go as far as you want to. You can always come back for more later, but can’t take back what you’ve already done.
This, perhaps, sounds like a heavy, too much to take talk almost suggesting that a man to man sexual encounter is a very big deal. Don’t let your ideas about sex get all out of ratio, but take a little time to think things through before having sex with a homo affair. There are plenty and very sensual ways in which you can develop your sexual sense after getting naked with another man. It is a n undeniable fact that we all have seen most of the body’s skin on many many other men at local swimming pool or beach and most of us have seen a range of flaccid penises also at school, college urinals, gyms etc. with no issue but when they’re erect, they all look different.
It is sardonic that even when we are alone enjoying our solo masturbating session, we are not much aware of our own erect penis. We tend to forget our own body especially the sliding hand and the erect shaft, giving control to the mental cinema screen. We do not dwell on enjoying the texture, the size, the shape, the color and the vigor of the physicality of masturbation. It is vehemently suggested to try stopping and slowing down during the play, moving deliberately sluggish, teasing ourselves, connecting with the sensations and imagining to do variant with those sensations. Bring these various aspects to your next sexual encounter with the guy and you’ll be more ready, more confident after the clothing layers of protection are taken off by both of you.
Pornography is another great way of exploring our fantasies and plenty available on the internet. Keep in mind that porn is for the viewer and although perfectly fine and nothing wrong with it but it is not about the real sex what we are trying to be in. Use it to look and register the models’ erections, and think of them, other men’s erections in our hands to more fully associate the feelings of experiencing with our partner’s arousal and erection. Never feel guilty or less of a man for wanting to see a cock, hold it, kiss it, worship it, love it, suck it and even have it inside your body. Accept and enjoy those desires and when you feel you’re ready to act on them, take the time to enjoy it. If you’ve prepared yourself a little, you’ll be confident enough to make the most of your first experiences.
I most sincerely believe that it would help the beginners and hesitant curious guys. I have been a gay bottom since the day one and been fucked plenty since I was couple days past my 18th birthday. I have learnt much with hard and difficult personal experiences with many many many medium, large and EX LRG cocks and have fallen plenty of times but am proud to have learnt and can share much with the willing. Qasim

BEING ON MY KNEES, KNEES & SHOULDERS OR EVEN ON MY BACK DOES NOT ALTER MY STATURE.


qasim786 36M
384 posts
4/19/2017 4:53 am

Please comment.

BEING ON MY KNEES, KNEES & SHOULDERS OR EVEN ON MY BACK DOES NOT ALTER MY STATURE.


qasim786 36M
384 posts
4/19/2017 4:53 am

Thank you.

BEING ON MY KNEES, KNEES & SHOULDERS OR EVEN ON MY BACK DOES NOT ALTER MY STATURE.


qasim786 36M
384 posts
4/19/2017 4:54 am

Be safe, Enjoy more.

BEING ON MY KNEES, KNEES & SHOULDERS OR EVEN ON MY BACK DOES NOT ALTER MY STATURE.


qasim786 36M
384 posts
4/19/2017 4:55 am

Live well.

BEING ON MY KNEES, KNEES & SHOULDERS OR EVEN ON MY BACK DOES NOT ALTER MY STATURE.


whitehouse 66M
860 posts
4/19/2017 5:57 am

I am a top now but i was a bottom and i also took all sizes and lengths of cocks. The secret is what you say. be prepared. Lots of foreplay. If you are a bottom and your going to go that far then make sure you are also clean on the inside. A little preparing makes having sex so much more enjoyable for both men.


OnDaFence 29M/37M  
15772 posts
4/19/2017 6:32 am

Wanting to go back for more from that person is a dam good sign..... even better is if they want to have more time with you.


flipflop87 29M
711 posts
4/19/2017 6:46 am

F U. You are too good Qasi...... One of a kind.


JoRay63 54M
44 posts
4/19/2017 10:39 am

Very Nice story !!


lcd24a 63M
7 posts
4/19/2017 5:17 pm

Good info,will check this blog often.


Hungr4Yungr 68M
2656 posts
4/19/2017 6:44 pm

Thank you for putting this so eloquently.


qasim786 36M
384 posts
4/19/2017 7:57 pm

Thank you all, so kind gents here for commenting and appreciating the information.

BEING ON MY KNEES, KNEES & SHOULDERS OR EVEN ON MY BACK DOES NOT ALTER MY STATURE.


jrodd 59M
1753 posts
4/19/2017 8:39 pm

Its usually too late to recommend a positive first time.


jrodd 59M
1753 posts
4/20/2017 1:44 am

I would say the best times may be after enough attempts occurred and your early not so great awkwards inexperience finally gets more refined by experimentation to the level where much greater extacsy can occur. The actual physics of sex bodily movements are adjustable to the degree that the awkwards attempts actually becomes getting used to and new techniques are learned ,usually the hard way for the first timers seldom get real great sex.


JustShowingOff 45M
13 posts
4/21/2017 9:42 pm

Thanks for writing this. I tend to break things down in a similar manner. I'm new to being open about who i am now.

I would much rather take my time meet a suitable partner and avoid the regrettable possibilities of just hooking up with some random guy.


Wolfe48 48M
2 posts
4/25/2017 10:35 pm

Nice story would love that