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DandR4hands4men 54M/54M
517 posts
4/30/2016 9:29 am
You Guys Were Right!!!


Thank you very much sexslave3 and Hunger4younger for your advice which I did take. But before we get into that , there are a couple of more interesting happenings to cover.

If you have been reading my blog a while, I know you know what sploshing is. This is when you incorporate food into your sex. It could be as easy as licking whipped cream off someone, to something more bizarre, like eating cucumbers, bananas or even smoked sausage out of someone's ass. Well, at my last outing, I was the victims and the culprit of such activities. And try not to get confused, I know I have fictitious names for most of the characters here, but I started typing before I got to look them up.

So I was sitting on the couch, minding my own business, not really having a great time because I was distracted by thoughts of Sawyer, when an old man, the host of this particular affair, sprayed whipped cream on my nipples and licked them off. Sadly, until Sawyer and our menage a trois guy decided to make a public spectacle of me, no one knew of my nipple sensitivity. Anyway, this little maneuver was enough to get me back into the party.

So I found a dick I wanted to suck, sprayed it down with whipped cream and went at it with wild abandon. I can say that his cream got mixed up with the whipped cream and it was definitely good to the last drop.Then my menage a trois guy said something that got us going at it. The next thing I knew I was eating a Ding Dong off of his ding dong. When I got all the chocolate and cream off of it, he was at full throttle. So much so that I had to bite around, adjusting the hole in the doughnut before I could get it to fit on his massive member. Finally got the glaze and stuff off his member. We both looked at the bundt cake but decided that was going too far.

I like playful, adventurous, exploratory guys like this. We can get creative and almost always have a damn good time. I have decided that the menage a trois guy is not a good substitute for Sawyer. Where Sawyer is for the most part, sweet, tender and romantic, this guy starts off okay but becomes a wild beast the longer we go at it.

He's predominantly a bottom, though most people see what he's working with and assume top or suck him. On the rare occasion he does top, he can and has hurt somebody. And he can literally go for hours without getting off. He collapses and is done when he does, but until then, he is actually a force to reckon with. There are warning signs when it might be harmful to play with him. The moans and groans of pleasure will occasionally be replaced with animalistic grunts. The braid on the back of his do with start to feel more whiplike as it thrashes against you. The other sign I don't feel comfortable saying but, trust me, it is time to either get him done or get out of his way!

My nipples have been scabbed over. My tongue was nearly dislocated because of his aggressive style of kissing when he is in the zone! I actually washed one host's bedding after he had fucked some guy and left that guy walking funny and a mess you wouldn't believe. So although I like this guy and think he is fun to be around, he will have to become a more tender lover before I could see much of a future with him.

Which takes us to our present...with Sawyer. And as we all thought, we needed to have this conversation. How did it go?

He tried to deny doing anything with my acquaintance, but when I mentioned the condoms and the easy access outfit, he dropped the point. He never denied the guy I found in my bedroom. And he claimed that Jim and him are not doing anything either, but I told him I knew about their past and that he isn't sporting the bad habits that caused you two to split up, without something in return. You are either putting out or he is hoping we split up so he can get another chance with you.

I then informed him that I had done the unthinkable and fallen in love with him. That the main thing that matters to me is our friendship and I don't want to lose that. I gave him a few days to think things over and the end result was...

He loves me, but not in love with me. But I'm the wifey, the care giver in this relationship and that's what he needs right now. He wants to know and understand me better. And he is sure I can help him get where he wants to get in his life. I am the right person to be in his life right now and if we could start with a new slate...

And that's what we did. And so far, it hasn't been too bad. He spends entirely too much time in the garage being straight, but I know he isn't doing anything with anyone there. He seems to have put some distance between him and Jim, who has now gotten back with the guy he dropped to get at Sawyer. We did agree that he shouldn't attend parties, and that if he does, we stay and play together. Sawyer also feels like we can not be really happy here, because he has easy access to all the things he now feels are not good for him. He wants to get to a better place within himself, and that will put him in a better place to make me happy. But do I want to move...for this?

Hungr4Yungr 75M
5766 posts
5/1/2016 11:31 am

No, it is not up to you to move to solve Sawyer's problems. He has to rationalize things in his own mind, and come to grips with starting a new life with you in your present location. I'm sure he can do it.